Facebook can destroy your communication

Social Media like as Facebook has Destroyed Communication among Friends and Family

written by: Faizatul Mufidah

Social Media is not alien to society in the world. Most of them even have many social networks such as Facebook, Twitter, Ym (yahoo messenger), and etc. There are including familiar social media that often use more million people as of children until adult have social media account. In this case, Facebook is familiar one. Facebook is a social media online that have name from colloquial name given students start of academic in United States to help them. Facebook is facilitative service that can connect with million people in the world without many rules for users to restrictive amount their friends on Facebook. And easy for access, everyone can has this account without confused how to use Facebook. Unfortunately, many impact that result from this account for user if they can’t controlling their emotion although also many positive in some case. And bad problem can be impact for communication with friends and family.

Firstly, from rate of Facebook user in the world has many followers. Because of Facebook is easy account social media. Almost people in the world coming into play and join Facebook account include students, teenagers, businessman and even child 9 years old have this account to increase their friends in the world. This is one of reasons that set seal to Facebook account will be not closed in the future although some people disagree. Have many friends is good but it is problem that make parents afraid if their children wrong in their social and cannot choice their friends. This makes broken communication with family and give misunderstood.

Secondly, look at the advantages and disadvantages perspective for users. For Facebook users itself, they think that Facebook can give information for them that they never know before. Besides, it can make interest with the game in Facebook account and that’s make their leisure time not boring. Unfortunately, without thinking information that they get true or not it will make misunderstanding. Because of all depend on users itself. They should filter the positive impact for them and throw the negative impact for them. Sometimes when they enjoyable with their friends on Facebook chatting, they forget all their people around. It’s not good for them.

Thirdly, about the effect that will be caused. Many users feel that join Facebook account and access chatting can losing their stress feeling and forget their problem although just for a while. It makes them feel enjoy and calm down. But if they can’t handle their emotion and can’t control their feeling, they can susceptible with illusion world from friends on Facebook. And it will be worse if the problem left. They will choose their friend on Facebook than their friends from the real world and it could be they forgot responsibility in their family.

Finally, not all social media account gives the positive impact for users. Sometimes there are some negative impacts for users if they cannot filter what they got. And it can make the big problem for communications in their environment if they feel more enjoyable with their friends from Facebook than from the real world. All of the reason that Social Media can be destroyed communication it is depends on users itself. As a user social media account must be smart to sort of things that can be positive for them or not.

Reference :

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Facebook

http://nickbarricella.hubpages.com/hub/The-Positive-and-Negative-Effects-of-Facebook