Social
Media like as Facebook has Destroyed Communication among Friends and Family
written by: Faizatul Mufidah
Social Media is not alien to society in
the world. Most of them even have many social networks such as Facebook,
Twitter, Ym (yahoo messenger), and etc. There are including familiar social
media that often use more million people as of children until adult have social
media account. In this case, Facebook is familiar one. Facebook is a
social media online that have name from colloquial name given students start of
academic in United States to help them. Facebook is facilitative service that
can connect with million people in the world without many rules for users to
restrictive amount their friends on Facebook. And easy for access, everyone can
has this account without confused how to use Facebook. Unfortunately, many
impact that result from this account for user if they can’t controlling their
emotion although also many positive in some case. And bad problem can be impact
for communication with friends and family.
Firstly, from rate of Facebook user in the
world has many followers. Because of Facebook is easy account social media.
Almost people in the world coming into play and join Facebook account include
students, teenagers, businessman and even child 9 years old have this account
to increase their friends in the world. This is one of reasons that set seal to
Facebook account will be not closed in the future although some people
disagree. Have many friends is good but it is problem that make parents afraid
if their children wrong in their social and cannot choice their friends. This
makes broken communication with family and give misunderstood.
Secondly, look
at the advantages and disadvantages perspective for users. For Facebook users
itself, they think that Facebook can give information for them that they never
know before. Besides, it can make interest with the game in Facebook account
and that’s make their leisure time not boring. Unfortunately, without thinking
information that they get true or not it will make misunderstanding. Because of
all depend on users itself. They should filter the positive impact for them and
throw the negative impact for them. Sometimes when they enjoyable with their
friends on Facebook chatting, they forget all their people around. It’s not
good for them.
Thirdly, about
the effect that will be caused. Many users feel that join Facebook account and
access chatting can losing their stress feeling and forget their problem
although just for a while. It makes them feel enjoy and calm down. But if they
can’t handle their emotion and can’t control their feeling, they can
susceptible with illusion world from friends on Facebook. And it will be worse
if the problem left. They will choose their friend on Facebook than their
friends from the real world and it could be they forgot responsibility in their
family.
Finally, not all
social media account gives the positive impact for users. Sometimes there are
some negative impacts for users if they cannot filter what they got. And it can
make the big problem for communications in their environment if they feel more
enjoyable with their friends from Facebook than from the real world. All of the
reason that Social Media can be destroyed communication it is depends on users
itself. As a user social media account must be smart to sort of things that can
be positive for them or not.
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